Wednesday, December 31, 2014

10 Promises for Parents:

You probably have a book mark somewhere with promises to pray for your children. You probably have good kid verses on your refrigerator about obedience and kindness and sharing with others. You probably have a few standby verses you share with the little ones when they start to get defiant and lippy. All good.

But do you have any verses for yourself?

My kids need Bible promises, but on most days I need them even more. I’m prone to wander, Lord I feel it, prone to leave the God I want them to love.

So here are ten promises from the Bible that every Christian parent should remember, especially the Christian parent writing this blog.

1. “Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds, for you know that the testing of your faith produces steadfastness” (James 1:2-3). Since the verse refers to trials of various kinds, I assume that James is talking about more than martyrdom and death. Sleepless infants, tortuous bedtimes, muddy feet, spilled orange juice, moody teens–they all count too. And we should count them all joy, even when they feel like the biggest pain. God promises he’s at work to produce steadfastness.

2. “Humble yourselves before the Lord, and he will exalt you” (James 4:10). You’re tired, scared, defeated, weary beyond all reckoning. Good. Get low, and God promises to lift you up.

3. “Unless the Lord builds the house, those who build it labor in vain” (Psalm 127:1). It doesn’t depend on me. It’s not about me. My kids are not for me. Stop freaking out. Stop trusting in horses and chariots.

4. “Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord, the fruit of the womb a reward” (Psalm 127:3). They are. They really, really, truly, actually are. Whether you have one child or two or ten or twenty, God has given you those children because he loves you. The world thinks they are burdens. God tells us they are blessings.

5. “A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger” (Proverbs 15:1). Yup, that verses is for parents too. The anger in our kids is from their hearts, but the mouthy way they learn to express that anger may be from our example. Why do I think my gasoline will help put out their fires?

6. “Whoever is slow to anger is better than the mighty, and he who rules his spirit than he who takes a city” (Proverbs 16:32). The only way to be a strong parent is to be a parent with self-control.

7. “My yoke is easy, and my burden is light” (Matthew 11:30). Parenting is hard work. Period. But parenting up to the expectations of your (fill in the blank: mother, mother-in-law, girlfriends, next door neighbor, own little taskmaster) is impossible. Parent for Christ’s sake. He promises not to weigh you down with impossible burdens.

8. “Do not neglect to do good and to share what you have, for such sacrifices are pleasing to God” (Hebrews 13:16). God knows that you sacrifice your time, your desires, your sleep, your money, and often your own dreams for your children. He sees and he smiles.

9. “Where there are no oxen, the manger is clean, but abundant crops come by the strength of the ox” (Proverbs 14:4). Everything is a mess, all the time. What else did we expect? We have dirty oxen running around. But there’s joy, memories, laughter, sanctification, and gospel growth from those wild animals too.

10. “But he gives more grace” (James 4:6). Ah, sweet grace. Grace to forgive your impatience (again) and your laziness (again). Grace to get you off the ground. Grace to get you walking. And grace to lead you home.

Author: Kevin Deyoung
Original Article: 10 Promises for Parents

Monday, December 29, 2014

6 Keys to Bed-Breaking Sex:

On Friday, February 13, 2015 Hollywood will release “50 Shades of Grey”. The movie is based on E.L. James's best-selling trilogy in which sweet, quiet Anastasia Steele's (Dakota Johnson) life changes when she meets billionaire Christian Grey (Jamie Dornan). The book series is immensely popular and one can expect the movie to be as well. 50 Shades is notable for it's explicitly erotic scenes featuring elements of sexual practice involving bondage/discipline, dominance/submission, and sadism/masochism (BDSM).

Sadly, the popularity of the book and the oncoming popularity of the movie have revealed a problem in America. The problem in America is that more married couples are unfulfilled in the bedroom and our looking to books and movies to fill their God-given sexual drive.

I strongly believe more couples should be having “Bed-Breaking Sex.”

When you and your spouse improve your sex life, you’ll simultaneously improve your marriage. It’s as simple as that. It takes a lot more than a great sex life to build a great marriage, but it’s nearly impossible to build a great marriage without it!

As I’ve interacted with couples, I’ve discovered that there seems to be an epidemic of unfulfilling sex (or sometimes no sex at all) happening in modern marriages. This tragic neglect or misunderstanding of sexuality has the potential to wreck a marriage. Don’t let that happen!

So how can you get bed-breaking sex? Every couple is different and there is rarely a “one-size-fits-all” approach to anything, but I’m convinced that these six basic principles would instantly improve the sexual fulfillment in most marriages. Give them a try! This is the kind of “homework” you’ll actually enjoy.

These first three apply BEFORE sex:

Make foreplay an all-day event.

Foreplay shouldn’t start thirty seconds before you plan to have intercourse (I’m talking to my fellow men out there on this one)! Find ways to flirt with each other throughout the day. Send flirtatious and/or thoughtful text messages to let your spouse know they’re on your mind. Those consistent little acts will help set the mood for romance later.

Tell your secrets.

One of the biggest barriers to true intimacy in marriage is a lack of trust. Your spouse needs to feel completely safe and secure with you to fully engage in sexual intimacy. Secrecy is an enemy of intimacy, so make sure you’re communicating consistently, openly, and honestly at all times. Your transparency will create trust and that trust will ultimately create better sex (and a better marriage).

Serve each other.

You should serve each other throughout the day so that your spouse’s mind can be freed up to enjoy the moment. Husband, this might mean washing the dishes or folding laundry. Wives, this might mean giving your husbands a back rub to help him relax. Find ways to serve each other and you’ll be building a bond of intimacy before you even get to bed.

These next three apply DURING sex:

Tell your spouse what you like (and what you don’t like).

Your spouse is not a mind reader. Be open and honest about what feels good and what makes you uncomfortable. Communication is vital to a mutually pleasurable experience.

Have fun!

If you’re not having fun while you’re having sex, then you’re doing something wrong! Bring your sense of humor. Be playful. Be adventurous. If it always feels like work, then talk to your spouse about the issues that might be holding you both back.

Be mentally monogamous. 

Don’t bring outside “fantasy” into your bedroom. Both your body and your mind have to be fully present in the moment, so don’t allow porn or erotic romance novels to put images in your mind that will create fantasies that don’t involve your spouse. True intimacy requires monogamy (both physically and mentally).

In conclusion, bed breaking sex will not happen by viewing “50 Shades of Grey” or other pornographic movies. Rather, bed breaking sex will only occur through foreplay, communication, serving each other, having fun and being mentally monogamous.

Thursday, December 18, 2014

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Wednesday, December 17, 2014

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Friday, December 12, 2014

The Art of Saying No

I have been a Christian for nine years and have been actively involved in church, and full-time vocational ministry since becoming a Christian. I have observed an epidemic among Christians and those in the church. This epidemic is suttel and at times disguises itself in the form of Godliness and self-less service but in reality is ungodly and is killing the church and burning out Christians. The epidemic I have observed over the years is the inability of Christians to say, "No". Christians for whatever reason have a hard time saying, "no". This is especially true for Christians in the South who do not want to offend. This epidemic among Christians being unable to say no is leading to a generation of church members who are over-committed, neglect family and burn-out, eventually, falling away from the church.

If you are someone who finds yourself always saying "yes" to requests to help out around the church and never "no" allow me to map out three effects of always saying yes and never no.


  • If you continue to say "yes" and never "no" you will lose your joy for the Lord and your joy for ministry. Do you find yourself looking around and wondering why no-one else helps or shows up? Do you find yourself loudly sighing or complaining about having to go back to church to work? If so, may I politely, but firmly tell you that you are losing your joy. You are being overworked and maybe need to say no more often.
  • If you continue to say "yes" and never "no" you will burn out. You can only take so much. Eventually your lack of joy will spill over onto others, people will not want to be around you, you will eventually snap, throw up your hands and walk away. We need seasons of rest because we can not do it all. If you continue to say yes and never no you will burn out.
  • If you continue to say "yes" and never "no" you will eventually walk away from the church. On Monday nights at the church where I work we have a ministry which visits those who are members of our church who have not been for a while. The purpose of the ministry is to care for others and invite them back to church. I can not tell you the number of times I have sat down with a family to talk to them about why they are no longer attending and they inform me that they have burned out. I often hear them say that they need a break. Sunday is the only time they spend together as a family and don't want to get up early and come to church. If I delve into their past, I more often than not discover a family who was very involved in church but over-committed themselves and have since left the church.
Always saying yes and never no, leads to a loss of joy, burn out and could eventually lead to you walking from the church. If you have read this far in the post you must be following along with my logic and you may be asking, "OK. I understand their is a problem but how do I say no." Below is a list of helpful steps in helping you say no when someone comes and asks for help.
  • Practice. Practice saying no. Go into the bathroom, shut the door and practice looking into the mirror and saying no. If you are married, ask your spouse to approach you and ask you to help out and practice saying no. Make sure she understands what you are attempting to do because she might smack you if not. 
  • Have rightly ordered priorities. The Bible teaches us that our priorities should be God, family, and than ministry. When we get these priorities confused we say yes to activities which take us away from our time with God and our time with our families. 
  • Understand that saying "no" to good things will free you up to say "yes" to the best things. For example, I was approached by several people in our church to referee Upwards Basketball and/or be a head coach for Upwards Basketball. Both of these responsibilities would have taken me away from my family multiple nights a week and I would have been committed to be at church every Saturday until March. This would take me away from spending time with Piper while she was young. I said no to a good thing (Upward) to say yes to the best thing (spending time with my family).
  • Understand that when you say "no" to someone it is not personal. I fear that the majority of people are saying "yes" in church not because they want to do something but because they are afraid of offending someone if they say "no". May I very nicely tell you to stop worrying. Stop trying to do everything. Stop trying to carry everyone else's burdens because truth be told they aren't yours to carry. Stop telling yourself that you owe everything to everyone. Stop saying yes to every favor and responsibility.
  • Saying no is biblical. In the New Testament there is a principle of the Sabbath or a principle of rest. You need to rest. You can't do everything. The Sabbath is God's gift to us. Stop saying "yes" to everything and say "no" to a few things to insure that you are able to enjoy a Sabbath rest.
Always saying yes and never no will lead to a loss of joy, burnout and possibly to walking away from the church. To avoid these scenarios I have charted several steps to implant to begin to say no more often. There is a principle which I use in my own life and ministry to help direct my life. This is a principle and should not be held legalistically.

The principal is that everyone should be involved  serving in two areas of ministry. Everyone should volunteer and serve in an area of ministry outside of the church and everyone should volunteer and serve in an area of ministry inside the church. Now some people because of their personality will be able to serve in three or four ministries but the majority of us are only able to serve in two. If you are a Sunday school teacher, don't also commit yourself to serving in choir, Upwards, visiting shut-ins, etc. Focus on one thing in the church and do that one thing to the best of your ability and to the glory of God. Also, don't ONLY serve in the church but also serve in your community. For example, you can volunteer in the local school, coach a local sports team, serve on the PTA, etc but don't volunteer at a local school, coach little league, volunteer at the fire department, attempt to do everything in the community and also serve in the local church. Focus on one thing in the community, do that one thing to the best of your ability and to the glory of God.

In conclusion, I have observed that Christians struggle to say no and are over-committed. This over-commitment is leading to a loss of joy, burn-out, and an exodus of members from the local church. Christians need to learn the art of saying no. Finally, Christians should cut back and be involved in two areas of ministry. One area of ministry inside the church and one area of ministry in the local community. When we always say yes and never no we lose our joy, burn out and leave the local church but when we learn the art of saying no, we discover a joyful life filled with self-less acts of service to our community and to the Lord through the local church.

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Thursday, December 11, 2014

Happy Birthday

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Wednesday, December 10, 2014

How To Share Your Faith With Co-Workers:

“For this is the will of God, that by doing good you should put to silence the ignorance of foolish people.”-1 Peter 2:15

When we interact with people on a daily basis, we have many opportunities for sharing our faith. First, be sure you are respectful to your employer and set a good example in your work ethic by working “as to the Lord” (Col. 3:23). When others around you grumble and complain, if you have a calm, forgiving, steadfast spirit, it will make an impression. As you respond in a Christlike way to angry coworkers and stressful circumstances, people will see a difference in your life.

If your boss forbids it, don’t witness on work time. Instead, keep a pile of tracts on your desk but don’t give them out. If someone asks for one, let them take it. Displaying a favorite Scripture or a devotional calendar, or quietly reading your Bible during lunchtime, may prompt others to inquire about your faith.

To not infringe on your employer’s time, invite unsaved coworkers out to lunch (not the opposite sex) and witness to them there. Just ask for their thoughts on what happens after death. That will let you know if they are open to the gospel. If you detect contention, apologize and instead use closet prayer. Make a list of workers and uphold them before God, asking for divine openings.

In the meantime,  let your love shine. Always be friendly and courteous, and show genuine interest in your coworkers’ lives. Share their joys and sorrows by congratulating them in their good times and offering to pray for them in their bad times. Be sure you do pray for them, then follow up by asking them about the situation you prayed for. They will be moved by your concern. If coworkers are discussing what they did during the previous weekend, you can share your excitement about attending church services or a special church event. Ask about their plans for celebrating Christmas or Easter; be nonjudgmental of their answer, and be ready to explain why you celebrate as you do.


Bringing home-baked goods or leaving a small gift with a note on a coworker’s desk can sometimes have a greater impact than a thousand eloquent sermons. We can show our faith by our works. Others may not like a tree of righteousness, but they cannot help but like its fruit.

Divine Appointment:

And Jesus had to pass through Samaria.-John 4:4

John 4 records a familiar story of Jesus’s divine appointment with the woman of Samaria. This story is one of the more popular stories which John records and has been taught and expounded on by many Pastors, teachers, and lay-persons. A few weeks ago I was preparing a youth Bible study on John 4 and noticed something interesting. John 4:4 states, “And Jesus had to pass through Samaria.” I couldn’t help but wonder, why did he have to pass through Samaria. Was it because of geography? Was there another route? Or was there something more going on? I had commonly heard it taught that Jews repudiated Samaritans and considered them heretical. Intense ethnic and cultural tensions raged historically between the two groups so that both avoided contact as much as possible. After further study I learned that passing through Samaria was the usual route taken by travelers from Judea to Galilee, though strict Jews, in order to avoid defilement, could bypass Samaria by opting for a longer route.

As I contemplated the verse I began to realize that if there was another route for Jesus to take than he didn’t have to pass through Samaria; therefore, I dusted off my Greek Bible. While translating from Greek to English I noticed that the word in verse 4 translated “had to” dei can also be translated “to be necessary,” and when you cross-reference this word with the other areas where it is used you begin to see a picture which indicates divine necessity. Jesus had to go through Samaria because that was the will of His Father. In other words I think John the author used the Greek word dei translated “had to” because Jesus had an appointment with divine destiny in meeting the Samaritan woman, to whom He would reveal His messiahship. There was a divine appointment which had been scheduled before the creation of the world, which was going to take place on that day, with that particular woman, at that particular well and Jesus had to go through Samaria to fulfill the appointment.

What does that mean for us? As Christians it is no accident that we live in the neighborhood that we live in. It is no accident we have the job we have. It is no accident we shop at the grocery store we shop at. It is no accident we do the things we do. EVERYTHING that happens has been and is being orchestrated by God to set up divine appointments with individuals which God desires us to share our faith with. God has gifted you, given you your personality, your experiences, placed you in your neighborhood, among your neighbors, in your workplace, among your co-workers, in your school, on your team, with your teammates BECAUSE He has a divine appointment with lost sinners which He desires you to meet. Please take time today to recognize divine appointments and share the Gospel with your friends, co-workers, teammates, and neighbors.


In conclusion, God has orchestrated events in your life today to set up a meeting with individuals whom He has chosen from before the foundation of the world to save. Will you attend the meeting and share your faith with others?

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February=The Month of Love:




Dear friends, let us love one another, because love is from God, and everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God. The one who does not love does not know God, because God is love. God’s love was revealed among us in this way: God sent His One and Only Son into the world so that we might live through Him. Love consists in this: not that we loved God, but that He loved us and sent His Son to be the propitiation for our sins. Dear friends, if God loved us in this way, we also must love one another. No one has ever seen God. If we love one another, God remains in us and His love is perfected in us. This is how we know that we remain in Him and He in us: He has given assurance to us from His Spirit. And we have seen His Son as the world’s Savior. Whoever confesses that Jesus is the Son of God-God remains in him and he in God. And we have come to know and to believe the love that God has for us. God is love, and the one who remains in love remains in God, and God remains in him. In this, love is perfected with us so that we may have confidence in the day of judgment, for we are as He is in the world. There is no fear in love; instead, perfect love drives out fear, because fear involves punishment. So the one who fears has not reached perfection in love. We love because He first loved us. If anyone says, “I love God,” yet hates his brother, he is a liar. For the person who does not love his brother he has seen cannot love the God he has not seen. And we have this command from Him: The one who loves God must also love his brother.-1 John 4-21

February is the month of love. If you are a Christian than your life should be marked as one of love. Love for God and love for others. In stark contrast to the self-centered and destructive philosophies of false teachers and the world John unfolds the powerful reasons why Christians practice love. In 1 John 4:7-21, the apostle includes five such reasons:

1) Christians habitually practice love because God, who indwells them, is the essence of love. The gnostics (false teachers in John’s day) believed that God was immaterial spirit and light, but never defined the source of love as coming from His inmost being. As God is Spirit (John 4:24), light (1:5), and a consuming fire (Heb. 12:9), so He is love (4:7,8). Love is inherent in all He is and does. Even His judgment and wrath are perfectly harmonized with His love.

2) Christians habitually practice love because they desire to imitate the supreme example of God’s sacrificial love in sending His Son for us (4:9).

3) Christians habitually practice love because love is the heart of Christian witness (4:12). Nobody can see God loving since He is invisible. Jesus no longer is in the world to manifest the love of God. The only demonstration of God’s love in this age is the church. That testimony is critical (John 13:35; 2 Cor. 5:18-20).

4) Christians habitually practice love because love is the Christian’s assurance (4:13-16; 3:21). Love banishes self-condemnation. When a Christian recognizes in his life the manifestation of love in actions, it results in confidence about his relationship with God. 

5) Christians habitually practice love because love is the Christian’s confidence in judgment (4:17-20; 3:16-23). Confidence is a sign that love is mature. This is not to suggest sinless perfection in a Christian’s life, but rather a habitual practice of love marked by confidence in the face of judgment. Christians love, not in order to escape judgment, but because they have escaped judgment.

In conclusion, as Christians are lives should be marked by love. Love for God and love for others. When we live out our love in the midst of a dark world we will shine like bright lights in the darkness.

Julia is NOT my soul mate:

It might seem odd that on this, Valentine’s Day week, I am beginning a post with the declaration that my wife is not my soul mate. But she isn’t.

I wouldn’t want to imagine life without Julia. I enjoy being with her more than anyone else in this world. I love her more than I ever thought you could love someone, and I miss her whenever I am not with her. I wouldn’t want to be married to anyone else other than Julia, which is good, because I plan on being married to her forever, and she has to let me die first.

But I reject the entire premise of soul mates.

Do you remember those awesome Evangelical 90’s/ early 2000’s where Jesus was kind of suppose to be like our boyfriend/girlfriend and we all kissed dating good-bye because we just knew that God was going to bring us THE ONE and then life would be awesome? And THE ONE would most likely be a stay-at-home mom, or at the very least a teacher, and we would have to be in college when we would meet at some sort of rally to save children from disease or something. We would know that she was THE ONE because of her plethora of WWJD bracelets and because (duh) she had also kissed dating goodbye. We would get married and it would be awesome FOREVER.

But then we went to college and were confronted with a solid theologian biblical spiritual emphasis week preacher (thanks Clayton King) who shattered our dreams by informing us that God doesn’t have a husband/wife for us, doesn’t have a plan for whom we marry. NOT TRUE I scolded the speaker in my head attacking him with the full force of Jeremiah 29:11 that God “knows the plans he has for me, plans to prosper me and not to harm me, plans to give me a hope and a future,” and obviously that means a hot Christian wife because God “delights in giving me the desires of my heart.”

He slammed through my horrible (yet popular) biblical abuse by reminding me that the first verse applied to the people of Israel in regards to a specific time and just didn’t even dignify my horrible abuse of the second verse with a rebuttal. Nope, he said, a wife is not only not a biblical promise, it is also not a specific element of God’s “plan for my life.” God’s plan is for us to be made more holy, more like Christ… not marry a certain person. (This advice can also be used when individuals ask what college God wants them to go to, accompanied by, “God doesn’t want you to be an idiot, so go somewhere you will learn.”)

There is no biblical basis to indicate that God has one soul mate for you to find and marry. You could have a great marriage with any number of compatible people. There is no ONE PERSON for you. But once you marry someone, that person becomes your one person. As for compatibility, all that really matters is that she loves the lord, makes you laugh, and was someone to whom you were attracted. The rest is frosting.

This is profoundly unromantic advice. We love to hear of people who “just can’t help who they love,” or people who “fall in love,” or “find the one person meant for them.”  Even within the Christian circle, we love to talk about how God “had someone” for someone else for all of time. But what happens to these people when the unstoppable and uncontrollable force that prompted them to start loving, lets them stop loving, or love someone else? What happens is a world where most marriages end in divorce, and even those that don’t are often unhappy.

My marriage is not based on a set of choices over which I had no control. It is based on a daily choice to love this woman, this wife that I chose out of many people that I could have chosen to love (in theory, don’t imagine that many others were lined up and knocking at the door). She is not some elusive soul mate, not some divine fulfillment, not some perfect step on the rigorously laid out but o so secret “Plan for My Life.”

But she is the person that I chose to ask out in college. She is the one who stayed beside me when everyone told us we shouldn’t be together. She is the one who agreed to travel the world with me and be involved in ministry. She is the person who agreed to marry me. At any step here, we could have made other choices and you know what? We might have married other people, or stayed single, and had happy and full lives.

But now I delight in choosing to love her every day.

I like it better this way, with the pressure on me and not on fate, cosmos, or divinity. I will not fall out of love, cannot fall out of love, because I willingly dived in and I’m choosing daily to stay in. This is my joyous task, my daily decision. This is my marriage.

Every day I pray for my daughter; Piper’s future. I pray for who she might marry, but also what job she will have, who her friends will be, and most of all, that she delights in becoming more like Christ. But when Piper come home starry-eyed from camp announcing that she can’t wait till the day she meets the man God has for her, I will probably pop her bubble and remind her that God doesn’t have a husband stored away somewhere for her

He has a whole life, one of rich and abundant choices. And it is awesome.

180 Movie:

In honor of National Right to Life Month here is a documentary which will open your eyes to the horror of abortion.

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CREW Youth Ministry will be filling baby bottles with coins during the month of February to help support our local pregnancy center which provides counseling, ultra-sound and mentoring to un-wed families.

An Open Letter to those Who Have Had An Abortion:

To Whom It May Concern:

Thank you very much for taking the time to click on the link. I cannot begin to imagine the deep pain and hurt which goes along with having an abortion. I can’t imagine the overwhelming grief, the regret, the shame and the remorse which you are feeling right now. Let me ask you a question, do you feel as if what you have done is too horrible to be forgiven? Do you think you will ever be able to forgive yourself? If this is where you are, than I have written this letter for you.

True forgiveness is only found in and through the person of Jesus Christ. Now, wait a minute. Don’t tune me out just because I mentioned Him. God loves you. He wants a relationship with you and He wanted it so bad that He came to earth in form (Jesus) to live among us, to tell us about Himself, and to ultimately lay down His life for us. All He asks in return is that we acknowledge that we need Him and to accept His gift of grace in exchange for our sin. Yes, I used another turn-off word: sin. Sin, sin, sin. It’s an unpopular word and an unpopular concept, almost as unpopular as mentioning Jesus. But the truth of the matter is this: We are sinners in need of a Savior. God is our Creator, and Father, and as such, loves us more than we can comprehend. There’s only one problem. God cannot allow sin into His presence. So because He loved us so much, He made a way for us to be cleansed of our sin: He became the Sacrificial Lamb. Blameless, sinless, He offered Himself up on the cross, paying the penalty so we wouldn’t have to.

If you have never acknowledged your need for Christ, I urge you to do so now. No amount of counseling or therapy or drugs will relieve the load of your guilt and sin until you accept the gift of grace God gave you when He allowed Himself to be nailed to a cross. He loves you and wants a relationship with you. He wants to be your friend, your comforter, your refuge, your hope, your peace, your joy. All you have to do is believe in faith that what He said in His Word (the Bible) is true. Then and only then will you find forgiveness, peace, healing from your abortion.

Once you’ve accepted Christ as your Savior, there are some things you need to know about true forgiveness. Such as:[1]

Forgiveness is not a feeling:
It is a choice that must be made as a conscious act of the will and has nothing to do with your feelings. The choice doesn’t change your feelings any more than your feelings nullify the choice. Make the choice is not the destination. It is only the beginning of the journey towards healing.

Forgiveness does not undo the damage or minimize the pain:
It does not sweep the conduct or the consequences under the rug where they will trip you up later. Forgiveness involves facing your feelings and dealing with them directly and honestly. Acknowledge the anger, the hurt, the guilt, the shame. But because your feelings will change daily, you must choose to anchor yourself in God’s Word that never changes.

Forgiveness is a product of God’s mercy:
If you feel that you don’t deserve to be forgiven, you’re right. Forgiveness is a free gift from God based on the shed blood of Jesus Christ at Calvary. Just as you did nothing to earn the forgiveness that leads to salvation, you can do nothing to earn forgiveness for your sin now. You must choose to accept God’s forgiveness and you must choose to forgive yourself. God commands you do so (Ephesians 4:31-32).

Forgiveness is a command:
God never commands us to do something without providing a way for us to obey Him. It is impossible to obey the command to forgive without relying on God’s forgiveness to enable you. Jesus said, “With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible”. In time He will enable you, through the power of His Holy Spirit, to completely forgive yourself and anyone else who may have played a part in your abortion (Philippians 2:13). However, you must first decide to forgive. If you will allow Him, God will work in you to free you from the bondage of the guilt, the grief, and the shame.

In conclusion, my heart, tears and prayers go out to you. I wish we were having coffee and I could lean forward, look you in the eyes, put my hand on your shoulder and tell you that God loves you and forgiveness can be found in His Son, Jesus Christ. Will you choose the path of forgiveness today?

Serving Him,


T. Elliott Welch

[1] Info from safehavenministries.com

Tuesday, December 9, 2014

Monday Morning Humor:

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Sunday, November 23, 2014

An Open Letter to Parents of Teenagers:

Dear Parents,

This weekend I had the privilege of attending a youth retreat in the mountains of North Carolina. I had a great time hanging out with middle/high school students, playing dodge ball, hiking, and studying the Bible. One of my responsibilities during the youth retreat was leading a break-out session for 11-12th graders. The break-out session lasted for two hours and during  our time we examined the Book of Daniel and highlighted the importance of Bible study and prayer. Before every lesson was an activity to help to engage the teens and get them talking. One of the activities involved throwing around a "koosh" ball and discussing several different topics and questions.

One of the questions which the teens answered was, "I know my parents are proud of me."​ I asked the question and tossed the "koosh" ball to the first teenager. I was expecting the majority of the teens to agree with the statement and we would move on. What I learned; however, was that the majority of teens in my break-out session (about ten) ​did not know that there parents were proud of them. Below are several statements teenagers in the group made.

  • I don't know if my parents are proud of me (said with a shrug of his shoulders and a downward glance)
  • I think my parents are proud of me but I don't hear it
  • I know when my parents are NOT proud of me
  • My parents tell me they are proud when I bring home good grades and do well in school but I don't always hear that they're proud of me.
  • I like to think they're proud of me but I don't KNOW.


After a few minutes of listening to 11/12th grade teenagers talk about not knowing if their parents were proud of them and watching their body language express sadness over this question I wanted to give each of them a hug and tell them that I was proud of them.

Parents, may I encourage you to tell your teenager that you are proud of him/her. May I encourage you for no specific reason to take time TODAY to text, call, look them in the eye when they come home from school and let them know that you are proud of them. When they make mistakes (and they will), when they make stupid decisions (and they will), before you say anything negative towards their behavior and before you punish them take time to let them know that you are proud of them but you are not proud of there choice. ALWAYS affirm your teenager before de-affirming their behavior. Please take time today to affirm your teenager. Please constantly and consistently tell your teenager that you are proud of him/her. They will not know unless they are told and it will not sink in unless it is told MULTIPLE times. Take time today to tell your teenager you are proud of him or her.

Parents, I work with teenagers for a living and I know that it is not easy to raise a teenager. Teenagers tend to be hard-headed and difficult and I know at times you may wonder if you are doing anything right. May I encourage you not to be so hard on yourself and letting your teenager know that you are proud of him/her is a simple, yet, effective way to have an impact on their life. Statistics show if a teenager constantly and consistently told by their parent  they they are proud of them they are encouraged and are more likely to make wise decisions and come to you when they make poor decisions. Please take time TODAY to tell your teenagers you are proud of him or her.

Reaching, Teaching, and Releasing,

T Welch

Friday, November 21, 2014

Monday Morning Humor

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Thursday, November 20, 2014

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Wednesday, November 19, 2014

Tough Questions: Is Joy to the World A Christmas Song?

No Christmas carol list would be complete without the exuberant celebration song, “Joy to the World.” This lively tune is easily memorized and simple to play on an instrument. But do you know the interesting story behind this well loved hymn?

Isaac Watts (1674-1748), author of around 750 songs, is commonly called “The Father of Hymns” due to his popularity as the first English hymn writer. A few of his most well-known songs still sung today include: Come ye that Love the Lord; When I Survey the Wondrous Cross; At the Cross; and the topic of today’s post, Joy to the World. Isaac Watts was a young man when hymns other than the Psalms were allowed to be sung in the Church of England (and you thought your church was conservative). This gave way to Watts developing many beloved songs. Watts still based many of his songs on the Psalms, but he was especially interested in writing hymns based on the “Christian experience.” Joy to the World was written in 1719 and based on Psalm 98:

Make a joyful noise unto the LORD, all the earth: make a loud noise, and rejoice, and sing praise. Sing unto the LORD with the harp; with the harp, and the voice of a psalm. With trumpets and sound of cornet make a joyful noise before the LORD, the King. Let the sea roar, and the fullness thereof; the world, and they that dwell therein. Let the floods clap their hands: let the hills be joyful together. Before the LORD; for He comes to judge the earth: with righteousness shall He judge the world, and the people with equity.

If you notice the lyrics of the song, Joy to the World, you will see nothing about shepherds, a manger, wise men, angels, or any other character or element that we normally associate with the Christmas story. The reason being that Isaac Watts did not write Joy to the World to be a Christmas song. The original theme of this song was the second coming of the Lord. Christmas won’t always be a joyful time, but when Jesus comes back, even the rocks will sing! Certainly we can look at the message in the song and see that it can be applied to Christ’s appearance as a babe in Bethlehem. We must prepare room for Him in our hearts and lives. This is a joyous occasion! However, we should not stop rejoicing at Christmas but should understand that there will come a time when Christ will return from Heaven and reign on this Earth. If this Christmas season is filled with sadness (loss of a loved one, family members away, etc) you can still rejoice because you know one day Christ will no more let sin and sorrows grow, nor thorns infest the ground, He will come to make His blessing flow, far as the curse is found. Joy to the World should cause us to rejoice in the now (Jesus has come as a baby at Christmas) and the not yet (He will come again and establish His Kingdom on Earth). We joyfully sing Joy to the World at Christmas with eager longing for that day when He will rule the world with truth and grace, and make the nations prove, the glories of His righteousness, and wonders of His love.

In conclusion, as you hear and sing this beloved carol this season, think about the words. Yes, they apply to the Christmas story in that the Lord is come! We should rejoice! But, let the lyrics all point you to the reason Jesus came: to save the world. Be ready because He is coming again! What a glorious day THAT will be when the whole earth celebrates His appearing!

Monday, November 17, 2014

Dear Piper:

Dear Piper,

I know you're too young to understand this letter; but I write it knowing that one day you will be alive and able to comprehend its meaning.

I specifically want to warn you of the dangers of adorning your body without adorning your soul.  I'm not sure what will be fashionable as you grow older, but these days American women, even professing Christian women, love to decorate the outside, often to the neglect of their internal and eternal selves.  Not only should you guard against the riches of this world that would provoke you to dress in clothes more expensive than they need to be--to impress others--but I'm sure the temptation will come to wear clothes that also show off your body in an immodest way.

I pray now for you sweetie that your heart will not be carried away by these lures of the devil.  God made you for so much more.  If you dress provocatively, to impress other women and to catch the eyes of men, you'll only be inviting sorrow into your life.  I hope you will cherish God's Word and hunger after his righteousness, and that you will reject the worldly system which says you're only as significant as your fashionable clothing.

I pray that, by the grace of Christ, your mother and I will instill within you that your true significance can only be found as you find yourself helpless and humble before God, confessing your sin and begging for his mercy.  May you be an embodiment of the Scripture that says, "I also want women to dress modestly, with decency and propriety, not with braided hair or gold or pearls or expensive clothes, but with good deeds, appropriate for women who profess to worship God" (1 Timothy 2:9-10).  Your clothes, like the words out of your mouth, will almost always be an expression of what's going on in your heart.  If your heart is pure, as you submit to Christ, then your dress and speech will also be Christ centered.

Reject this worldly culture that seeks to undress you in public, to make your body an object a man longs after.  "Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as braided hair and the wearing of gold jewelry and fine clothes.  Instead, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God's sight" (1 Peter 3:3-4).  Fully embrace all that God wants to be for you in Christ Jesus.  Find your worth and significance in God as you worship him.  Delight yourself in the Lord and he will give you the desires of your heart.  Taste and see that he is good--more savory and satisfying than what the world dangles before you.
The morsels the world offers will leave you hungering for more, and, in the end, miserable.  Don't adorn your body in such a way that makes it a spectacle for lustful men or in a way that shows off an expensive taste in clothes.  Instead, adorn your body so people will not ultimately look at you, but see the glory of Christ as He shines upon you.

Your loving dad,



T

Thursday, November 13, 2014

Grace In A Feeding Trough:

And Joseph also went up from Galilee, from the town of Nazareth, to Judea, to the city of David, which is called Bethlehem, because he was of the house and lineage of David to be registered with Mary, his betrothed, who was with child. And while they were there, the time came for her to give birth. And she gave birth to her firstborn son and wrapped him in swaddling cloths and laid him in a manger, because there was no place for them in the inn. (Luke 2:4-7).

I am afraid that we have become so familiar with the Christmas story that we hardly notice its scandal. But think about the scenario. Mary was found pregnant out of wedlock in a culture where such shameful deeds were intolerable, and her "Holy Ghost" story would only intensify the ridicule. What would you say if your daughter or sister or girlfriend or wife came to you with such a tale? "No, really, it was God who did this. I'm telling the truth. See, I had this vision.. "Yeah right." Instead of stoning his fiancee, Joseph decided to divorce her. But God stopped him in his tracks and convinced him that Mary's Holy Ghost Story was actually true. So Mary and Joseph endured the shame together once Mary's belly expanded into evidence.

Luckily, Rome called for a census, which required the couple to leave Nazareth and travel to Joseph's village of origin: Bethlehem. The rugged journey provided a soothing respite from public shame, no doubt. But once they entered Bethlehem, more judgmental eyebrows were raised and the scandal continued.

Popular renditions of the Christmas story reflect little historical truth. Jesus was most likely not born outside of a commercial "inn", as our English translation suggest (Luke 2:7). The word kataluma can refer to an ancient motel, but it usually refers to a spare room of a house, not an "inn". There probably weren't any commercial inns in a small village like Bethlehem, so "spare room" is the best translation of the word kataluma. So when Mary and Joseph sought shelter in their hometown of Bethlehem, they almost certainly went to a house of a relative and asked to stay in his spare room, his kataluma. 

"Sorry," the relative said, eyeing Mary's expanded waistline. "There's no space in our kataluma. You'll have to sleep out with the animals." "But, sir," Joseph pleaded, "my wife is about to have a baby, and-" "Fiancee, Joseph! She's your fiancee, not your wife," his relative interjected. "You can sleep out with the animals if you want. But you cannot come under my roof."

Extending hospitality to the unwed couple would give approval to their actions, and the whole village would soon find out. Joseph's relative could not risk the shame. So Mary and Joseph remained outside in the courtyard, where the animals were kept at night.

And then it started. Contractions knifed their way through Mary's abdomen, while nervous excitement shivered up Joseph's spine. The piercing pain overshadowed the thick stench of animal excrement that oppressed the cool winter air. And the shame of rejection and ridicule was drowned out by the jubilance of a newborn child.

No doctor, no instruments, no sanitation, and no painkillers. Childbirth in the first century was a risky event. but God endured the shame, the risk, in order to bring us back to Eden.

As Mary grunted and pushed, heaven came crashing down to earth, and Joseph received the Son of God, the snake-crushing Messiah, the illegitimate child, into his arms. First some hair, and then the head. Shoulders and arms, legs and feet The one who made the stars passed through the birth canal and into Joseph's nervous hands. Joseph slashed and tied the umbilical cord, wiped the blood and birth away from the child's eyes, and assisted his helpless son to expel the remaining fluid from His lungs. Cradling this eight-pound miracle, he watched the breath of life expand the baby's chest, and an urgent wail pierced the courtyard and spooked the sheep. After nursing the child to soothe His fear, Mary wrapped her son-God's Son- in cloth, and with no crib nearby, she laid Him in a feeding trough.

A feeding trough.

The One who spoke the universe into existence who reigns over the nations, who commands history, who created you and me in His own image chose to be laid in a box where animals ate grain. The One who formed galaxies and molded the earth suckled the breast of a thirteen-year-old unwed Jewish girl in a small village of a backwater province of the Roman Empire.

Jesus is a religious leader, but the religious leaders didn't want Him.
Jesus is s a king, but the kings didn't want Him.
Jesus is a revolutionary, but the revolutionaries didn't want Him.
Jesus is the perfect human, but humanity didn't want Him.
You didn't want Him, but He wanted you.

We are hunted and loved by God whose hunt landed Him in a feeding trough. What a mighty God we serve

Not That Kind of Homosexuality?:

The Bible has nothing good to say about homosexual practice.

That may sound like a harsh conclusion, but it’s not all that controversial. Even the gay Dutch scholar Pim Pronk has concluded that “wherever homosexual intercourse is mentioned in Scripture, it is condemned. With reference to it the New Testament adds no new arguments to those of the Old. Rejection is a foregone conclusion; the assessment of it nowhere constitutes a problem.”[1] There is simply no positive case to be made from the Bible for homoerotic behavior.

Revisionist arguments in favor of same-sex unions do not rest on gay affirming exegetical conclusions as much as they try to show that traditional interpretations of Scripture are unwarranted. That is to say, the only way revisionist arguments make sense is if they can show that there is an impassable distance between the world of the Bible and our world.

Of all the arguments in favor of same-sex behavior, the cultural distance argument is the most foundational and the most common (at least among those for whom biblical authority is still important). Although the Mosaic Law and Paul’s letter to the Romans and the vice lists of the New Testament speak uniformly against same-sex behavior, these texts (it is said) were addressing a different kind of same-sex behavior. The ancient world had no concept of sexual orientation, no understanding of egalitarian, loving, committed, monogamous, covenantal same-sex unions.
The issue was not gender (whether the lovers were male or female), but gender roles (whether a man was overly feminized and acting like a woman).

The issue was not men having sex with men, but men having sex with boys.

The issue was not consensual same-sex intercourse, but gang rape, power imbalances, and systemic oppression.

The revisionist case can take many forms, but central to most of them is the “not that kind of homosexuality!” argument. We can safely set aside the scriptural prohibitions against homosexual behavior because we are comparing apples and oranges: we are talking in our day about committed, consensual, lifelong partnerships, something the biblical authors in their day knew nothing about.
Despite its superficial plausibility, there are at least two major problems with this line of thinking.

Silence Is Not Always Golden
For starters, the cultural distance argument is an argument from silence. The Bible nowhere limits its rejection of homosexuality to exploitative or pederastic (man-boy) forms of same-sex intimacy. Leviticus forbids a male lying with a male as with a woman (Lev. 18:2220:13). The text says nothing about temple prostitution, effeminate men, or sexual domination. The prohibition is against men doing with men what ought to be done with women. Similarly, the same-sex sin condemned in Romans 1 is not simply out of control passion or the insatiable male libido that desires men in addition to women. According to Paul, the fundamental problem with homosexual behavior is that men and women exchange sexual intercourse with the opposite sex for unnatural relations with persons of the same sex (Rom. 1:26-27; cf. 2225). If the biblical authors meant to frown upon only certain kinds of homosexual arrangements, they wouldn’t have condemned the same-sex act itself in such absolute terms.

Because the Bible never limits its rejection of homosexual behavior to pederasty or exploitation, those wanting to affirm homosexual behavior can only make an argument from silence. That’s why you will often read in the revisionist literature that the biblical author was only thinking of man-boy love or that an exploitative relationship would have been assumed in the minds of the original audience. The logic usually goes like this:
  • There were many bad example of homosexual behavior in the ancient world.
  • For example, here are ancient sources describing pederasty, master-slave encounters, and wild promiscuity.
  • Therefore, when the Bible condemns same-sex intimacy, it had these bad examples in mind.
This reasoning can look impressive, especially when it comes at you with a half dozen quotations from ancient sources that most readers are not familiar with. But the last step in the syllogism is an assumption more than an argument. How can we be sure Paul had these bad examples in mind? If he did, why didn’t he use the Greek word for pederasty? Why didn’t he warn masters against forcing themselves upon slaves? Why does the Bible talk about men lying with men and the exchange of what is natural for unnatural if it wasn’t thinking about the created order and only had in mind predatory sex and promiscuous liaisons? If the biblical authors expected us to know what they really had in mind—and no one figured this out for two millennia—it appears that they came up with a remarkably ineffective way of getting their point across.

What Do the Texts Say?
The second reason the distance argument fails is because it is an argument against the evidence. The line of reasoning traced above would be more compelling if it could be demonstrated that the only kinds of homosexuality known in the ancient world were based on pederasty, victimization, and exploitation. On the face of it, it’s strange that progressive voices would want us to reach this conclusion. For it would mean that committed, consensual, lifelong partnerships were completely unknown and untried in the ancient world. It seems demeaning to suggest that until very recently in the history of the world there were no examples of warm, loving, committed homosexual relationships. This is probably why Matthew Vines in using the cultural distance argument to make a biblical case for same-sex relationships admits, “This isn’t to say no one [in the Greco-Roman world] pursued only same-sex relationships, or that no same-sex unions were marked by long-term commitment and love.”[2] But of course, once we recognize that the type of same-sex unions progressives want to bless today were in fact present in the ancient world, it’s only special pleading which makes us think the biblical prohibitions couldn’t be talking about those kinds of relationships.
I’m not a scholar of the ancient world, neither are most of the authors writing on the revisionist side. As a pastor I can read Greek, but I’m no expert in Plato, Plutarch, or Aristides. Most people reading this are not scholars either. Thankfully, almost all of the important ancient texts on homosexuality are readily available. It doesn’t make for fun reading (especially if you think homosexual behavior is wrong), but anyone can explore the primary sources in Homosexuality In Greece and Rome: A Sourcebook of Basic Documents. This 558 page book is edited by the non-Christian classics professor Thomas K Hubbard. What you’ll find in the sourcebook is not surprising given the diversity and complexity of the ancient world: Homosexual behavior was not reducible to any single pattern and moral judgment did not fall into neat categories. There was no more consensus about homosexuality in ancient Greece and Rome than we see today.[3]

From a Christian point of view, there are plenty of examples of “bad” homosexuality in the ancient world, but there is also plenty of evidence to prove that homosexual activity was not restricted to man-boy pairs. Some homosexual lovers swore continued attraction well into their loved one’s adulthood, and some gay lovers were lifelong companions.[4] By the first century AD, the Roman was increasingly divided on the issue of homosexuality. As public displays of same-sex indulgence grew, so did the moral condemnation of homosexual behavior.[5] Every kind of homosexual relationship was known in the first century, from lesbianism, to origiastic behavior, to gender-bending “marriage”, to lifelong same-sex companionship. Hubbard’s summary of early imperial Rome is important:
The coincidence of such severity on the part of moralistic writers with the flagrant and open display of every form of homosexual behavior by Nero and other practitioners indicates a culture in which attitude about this issue increasingly defined one’s ideological and moral position. In other words, homosexuality in this era may have ceased to be merely another practice of personal pleasure and began to be viewed as an essential and central category of personal identity, exclusive of and antithetical to heterosexual orientation.
If in the ancient world not only had a category for committed same-sex relationships but also some understanding of homosexual orientation (to use our phrase), there is no reason to think the New Testament’s prohibitions against same-sex behavior were only thinking of pederasty and exploitation.
Hubbard is not the only scholar to see the full range of homosexual expression in the ancient world. William Loader, who has written eight significant books on sexuality in Judaism and early Christianity and is himself a strong proponent of same-sex marriage, points to examples of same-sex adult partnerships in the ancient world.[6] Even more telling, Loader sees evidence for nascent ideas about orientation in the Greco-Roman era:
It is very possible that Paul knew of views which claimed some people had what we would call a homosexual orientation, though we cannot know for sure and certainly should not read our modern theories back into his world. If he did, it is more likely that, like other Jews, he would have rejected them out of hand, as does Philo after reporting Aristophanes’ bizarre aetiology [i.e., the study of causation] of human sexuality.[7]
Loader’s statement about Aristophanes is a reference to Plato’s Symposium (c. 385-370 B.C.), a series of speeches on Love (Eros) given by famous men at a drinking party in 416 B.C.. At this party we meet Pausanias who was a lover of the host Agathon, both grown men. Pausanias applauds the naturalness and longevity of same-sex love. In the fourth speech we meet the comic poet Aristophanes who proposes a convoluted theory, including notions of genetic causation, about why some men and women are attracted to persons of the same sex. Even if the speech is meant to be satire, it only works as satire by playing off the positive view of homosexual practice common in antiquity.[8]
To suggest that only certain kinds of homosexual practice (the bad kinds) were known in the ancient world is a claim that flies in the face of many Greek texts. Here, for example, is N.T. Wright’s informed conclusion:
As a classicist, I have to say that when I read Plato’s Symposium, or when I read the accounts from the early Roman empire of the practice of homosexuality, then it seems to me they knew just as much about it as we do. In particular, a point which is often missed, they knew a great deal about what people today would regard as longer-term, reasonably stable relations between two people of the same gender. This is not a modern invention, it’s already there in Plato. The idea that in Paul’s today it was always a matter of exploitation of younger men by older men or whatever … of course there was plenty of that then, as there is today, but it was by no means the only thing. They knew about the whole range of options there.[9]
And then there is this paragraph from the late Louis Crompton, a gay man and pioneer in queer studies, in his massive book Homosexuality and Civilization:
Some interpreters, seeking to mitigate Paul’s harshness, have read the passage [in Romans 1] as condemning not homosexuals generally but only heterosexual men and women who experimented with homosexuality. According to this interpretation, Paul’s words were not directed at “bona fide” homosexuals in committed relationships. But such a reading, however well-intentioned, seems strained and unhistorical. Nowhere does Paul or any other Jewish writer of this period imply the least acceptance of same-sex relations under any circumstances. The idea that homosexuals might be redeemed by mutual devotion would have been wholly foreign to Paul or any Jew or early Christian.[10]
I know it is poor form to pile up block quotes from other authors, but in this case it proves a point. Scholars all of different stripes have said the same thing: the cultural distance argument will not work. There is nothing in the biblical text to suggest Paul or Moses or anyone else meant to limit the Scriptural condemnation of homosexual behavior. Likewise, there is no good reason to think from the thousands of homosexuality-related texts found in the Greco-Roman period that the blanket rejection of homosexual behavior found in the Bible can be redeemed by postulating an impassable cultural distance between our world and the ancient world. There is simply no positive case for homosexual practice in the Bible and no historical background that will allow us to set aside what has been the plain reading of Scripture for twenty centuries. The only way to think the Bible is talking about every other kind of homosexuality except the kind our culture wants to affirm is to be less than honest with the texts or less than honest with ourselves.

Original Post: Not That Kind of Homosexuality:
Original Author: Kevin Deyoung