Sunday, November 23, 2014

An Open Letter to Parents of Teenagers:

Dear Parents,

This weekend I had the privilege of attending a youth retreat in the mountains of North Carolina. I had a great time hanging out with middle/high school students, playing dodge ball, hiking, and studying the Bible. One of my responsibilities during the youth retreat was leading a break-out session for 11-12th graders. The break-out session lasted for two hours and during  our time we examined the Book of Daniel and highlighted the importance of Bible study and prayer. Before every lesson was an activity to help to engage the teens and get them talking. One of the activities involved throwing around a "koosh" ball and discussing several different topics and questions.

One of the questions which the teens answered was, "I know my parents are proud of me."​ I asked the question and tossed the "koosh" ball to the first teenager. I was expecting the majority of the teens to agree with the statement and we would move on. What I learned; however, was that the majority of teens in my break-out session (about ten) ​did not know that there parents were proud of them. Below are several statements teenagers in the group made.

  • I don't know if my parents are proud of me (said with a shrug of his shoulders and a downward glance)
  • I think my parents are proud of me but I don't hear it
  • I know when my parents are NOT proud of me
  • My parents tell me they are proud when I bring home good grades and do well in school but I don't always hear that they're proud of me.
  • I like to think they're proud of me but I don't KNOW.


After a few minutes of listening to 11/12th grade teenagers talk about not knowing if their parents were proud of them and watching their body language express sadness over this question I wanted to give each of them a hug and tell them that I was proud of them.

Parents, may I encourage you to tell your teenager that you are proud of him/her. May I encourage you for no specific reason to take time TODAY to text, call, look them in the eye when they come home from school and let them know that you are proud of them. When they make mistakes (and they will), when they make stupid decisions (and they will), before you say anything negative towards their behavior and before you punish them take time to let them know that you are proud of them but you are not proud of there choice. ALWAYS affirm your teenager before de-affirming their behavior. Please take time today to affirm your teenager. Please constantly and consistently tell your teenager that you are proud of him/her. They will not know unless they are told and it will not sink in unless it is told MULTIPLE times. Take time today to tell your teenager you are proud of him or her.

Parents, I work with teenagers for a living and I know that it is not easy to raise a teenager. Teenagers tend to be hard-headed and difficult and I know at times you may wonder if you are doing anything right. May I encourage you not to be so hard on yourself and letting your teenager know that you are proud of him/her is a simple, yet, effective way to have an impact on their life. Statistics show if a teenager constantly and consistently told by their parent  they they are proud of them they are encouraged and are more likely to make wise decisions and come to you when they make poor decisions. Please take time TODAY to tell your teenagers you are proud of him or her.

Reaching, Teaching, and Releasing,

T Welch

Friday, November 21, 2014

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Thursday, November 20, 2014

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Wednesday, November 19, 2014

Tough Questions: Is Joy to the World A Christmas Song?

No Christmas carol list would be complete without the exuberant celebration song, “Joy to the World.” This lively tune is easily memorized and simple to play on an instrument. But do you know the interesting story behind this well loved hymn?

Isaac Watts (1674-1748), author of around 750 songs, is commonly called “The Father of Hymns” due to his popularity as the first English hymn writer. A few of his most well-known songs still sung today include: Come ye that Love the Lord; When I Survey the Wondrous Cross; At the Cross; and the topic of today’s post, Joy to the World. Isaac Watts was a young man when hymns other than the Psalms were allowed to be sung in the Church of England (and you thought your church was conservative). This gave way to Watts developing many beloved songs. Watts still based many of his songs on the Psalms, but he was especially interested in writing hymns based on the “Christian experience.” Joy to the World was written in 1719 and based on Psalm 98:

Make a joyful noise unto the LORD, all the earth: make a loud noise, and rejoice, and sing praise. Sing unto the LORD with the harp; with the harp, and the voice of a psalm. With trumpets and sound of cornet make a joyful noise before the LORD, the King. Let the sea roar, and the fullness thereof; the world, and they that dwell therein. Let the floods clap their hands: let the hills be joyful together. Before the LORD; for He comes to judge the earth: with righteousness shall He judge the world, and the people with equity.

If you notice the lyrics of the song, Joy to the World, you will see nothing about shepherds, a manger, wise men, angels, or any other character or element that we normally associate with the Christmas story. The reason being that Isaac Watts did not write Joy to the World to be a Christmas song. The original theme of this song was the second coming of the Lord. Christmas won’t always be a joyful time, but when Jesus comes back, even the rocks will sing! Certainly we can look at the message in the song and see that it can be applied to Christ’s appearance as a babe in Bethlehem. We must prepare room for Him in our hearts and lives. This is a joyous occasion! However, we should not stop rejoicing at Christmas but should understand that there will come a time when Christ will return from Heaven and reign on this Earth. If this Christmas season is filled with sadness (loss of a loved one, family members away, etc) you can still rejoice because you know one day Christ will no more let sin and sorrows grow, nor thorns infest the ground, He will come to make His blessing flow, far as the curse is found. Joy to the World should cause us to rejoice in the now (Jesus has come as a baby at Christmas) and the not yet (He will come again and establish His Kingdom on Earth). We joyfully sing Joy to the World at Christmas with eager longing for that day when He will rule the world with truth and grace, and make the nations prove, the glories of His righteousness, and wonders of His love.

In conclusion, as you hear and sing this beloved carol this season, think about the words. Yes, they apply to the Christmas story in that the Lord is come! We should rejoice! But, let the lyrics all point you to the reason Jesus came: to save the world. Be ready because He is coming again! What a glorious day THAT will be when the whole earth celebrates His appearing!

Monday, November 17, 2014

Dear Piper:

Dear Piper,

I know you're too young to understand this letter; but I write it knowing that one day you will be alive and able to comprehend its meaning.

I specifically want to warn you of the dangers of adorning your body without adorning your soul.  I'm not sure what will be fashionable as you grow older, but these days American women, even professing Christian women, love to decorate the outside, often to the neglect of their internal and eternal selves.  Not only should you guard against the riches of this world that would provoke you to dress in clothes more expensive than they need to be--to impress others--but I'm sure the temptation will come to wear clothes that also show off your body in an immodest way.

I pray now for you sweetie that your heart will not be carried away by these lures of the devil.  God made you for so much more.  If you dress provocatively, to impress other women and to catch the eyes of men, you'll only be inviting sorrow into your life.  I hope you will cherish God's Word and hunger after his righteousness, and that you will reject the worldly system which says you're only as significant as your fashionable clothing.

I pray that, by the grace of Christ, your mother and I will instill within you that your true significance can only be found as you find yourself helpless and humble before God, confessing your sin and begging for his mercy.  May you be an embodiment of the Scripture that says, "I also want women to dress modestly, with decency and propriety, not with braided hair or gold or pearls or expensive clothes, but with good deeds, appropriate for women who profess to worship God" (1 Timothy 2:9-10).  Your clothes, like the words out of your mouth, will almost always be an expression of what's going on in your heart.  If your heart is pure, as you submit to Christ, then your dress and speech will also be Christ centered.

Reject this worldly culture that seeks to undress you in public, to make your body an object a man longs after.  "Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as braided hair and the wearing of gold jewelry and fine clothes.  Instead, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God's sight" (1 Peter 3:3-4).  Fully embrace all that God wants to be for you in Christ Jesus.  Find your worth and significance in God as you worship him.  Delight yourself in the Lord and he will give you the desires of your heart.  Taste and see that he is good--more savory and satisfying than what the world dangles before you.
The morsels the world offers will leave you hungering for more, and, in the end, miserable.  Don't adorn your body in such a way that makes it a spectacle for lustful men or in a way that shows off an expensive taste in clothes.  Instead, adorn your body so people will not ultimately look at you, but see the glory of Christ as He shines upon you.

Your loving dad,



T

Thursday, November 13, 2014

Grace In A Feeding Trough:

And Joseph also went up from Galilee, from the town of Nazareth, to Judea, to the city of David, which is called Bethlehem, because he was of the house and lineage of David to be registered with Mary, his betrothed, who was with child. And while they were there, the time came for her to give birth. And she gave birth to her firstborn son and wrapped him in swaddling cloths and laid him in a manger, because there was no place for them in the inn. (Luke 2:4-7).

I am afraid that we have become so familiar with the Christmas story that we hardly notice its scandal. But think about the scenario. Mary was found pregnant out of wedlock in a culture where such shameful deeds were intolerable, and her "Holy Ghost" story would only intensify the ridicule. What would you say if your daughter or sister or girlfriend or wife came to you with such a tale? "No, really, it was God who did this. I'm telling the truth. See, I had this vision.. "Yeah right." Instead of stoning his fiancee, Joseph decided to divorce her. But God stopped him in his tracks and convinced him that Mary's Holy Ghost Story was actually true. So Mary and Joseph endured the shame together once Mary's belly expanded into evidence.

Luckily, Rome called for a census, which required the couple to leave Nazareth and travel to Joseph's village of origin: Bethlehem. The rugged journey provided a soothing respite from public shame, no doubt. But once they entered Bethlehem, more judgmental eyebrows were raised and the scandal continued.

Popular renditions of the Christmas story reflect little historical truth. Jesus was most likely not born outside of a commercial "inn", as our English translation suggest (Luke 2:7). The word kataluma can refer to an ancient motel, but it usually refers to a spare room of a house, not an "inn". There probably weren't any commercial inns in a small village like Bethlehem, so "spare room" is the best translation of the word kataluma. So when Mary and Joseph sought shelter in their hometown of Bethlehem, they almost certainly went to a house of a relative and asked to stay in his spare room, his kataluma. 

"Sorry," the relative said, eyeing Mary's expanded waistline. "There's no space in our kataluma. You'll have to sleep out with the animals." "But, sir," Joseph pleaded, "my wife is about to have a baby, and-" "Fiancee, Joseph! She's your fiancee, not your wife," his relative interjected. "You can sleep out with the animals if you want. But you cannot come under my roof."

Extending hospitality to the unwed couple would give approval to their actions, and the whole village would soon find out. Joseph's relative could not risk the shame. So Mary and Joseph remained outside in the courtyard, where the animals were kept at night.

And then it started. Contractions knifed their way through Mary's abdomen, while nervous excitement shivered up Joseph's spine. The piercing pain overshadowed the thick stench of animal excrement that oppressed the cool winter air. And the shame of rejection and ridicule was drowned out by the jubilance of a newborn child.

No doctor, no instruments, no sanitation, and no painkillers. Childbirth in the first century was a risky event. but God endured the shame, the risk, in order to bring us back to Eden.

As Mary grunted and pushed, heaven came crashing down to earth, and Joseph received the Son of God, the snake-crushing Messiah, the illegitimate child, into his arms. First some hair, and then the head. Shoulders and arms, legs and feet The one who made the stars passed through the birth canal and into Joseph's nervous hands. Joseph slashed and tied the umbilical cord, wiped the blood and birth away from the child's eyes, and assisted his helpless son to expel the remaining fluid from His lungs. Cradling this eight-pound miracle, he watched the breath of life expand the baby's chest, and an urgent wail pierced the courtyard and spooked the sheep. After nursing the child to soothe His fear, Mary wrapped her son-God's Son- in cloth, and with no crib nearby, she laid Him in a feeding trough.

A feeding trough.

The One who spoke the universe into existence who reigns over the nations, who commands history, who created you and me in His own image chose to be laid in a box where animals ate grain. The One who formed galaxies and molded the earth suckled the breast of a thirteen-year-old unwed Jewish girl in a small village of a backwater province of the Roman Empire.

Jesus is a religious leader, but the religious leaders didn't want Him.
Jesus is s a king, but the kings didn't want Him.
Jesus is a revolutionary, but the revolutionaries didn't want Him.
Jesus is the perfect human, but humanity didn't want Him.
You didn't want Him, but He wanted you.

We are hunted and loved by God whose hunt landed Him in a feeding trough. What a mighty God we serve

Not That Kind of Homosexuality?:

The Bible has nothing good to say about homosexual practice.

That may sound like a harsh conclusion, but it’s not all that controversial. Even the gay Dutch scholar Pim Pronk has concluded that “wherever homosexual intercourse is mentioned in Scripture, it is condemned. With reference to it the New Testament adds no new arguments to those of the Old. Rejection is a foregone conclusion; the assessment of it nowhere constitutes a problem.”[1] There is simply no positive case to be made from the Bible for homoerotic behavior.

Revisionist arguments in favor of same-sex unions do not rest on gay affirming exegetical conclusions as much as they try to show that traditional interpretations of Scripture are unwarranted. That is to say, the only way revisionist arguments make sense is if they can show that there is an impassable distance between the world of the Bible and our world.

Of all the arguments in favor of same-sex behavior, the cultural distance argument is the most foundational and the most common (at least among those for whom biblical authority is still important). Although the Mosaic Law and Paul’s letter to the Romans and the vice lists of the New Testament speak uniformly against same-sex behavior, these texts (it is said) were addressing a different kind of same-sex behavior. The ancient world had no concept of sexual orientation, no understanding of egalitarian, loving, committed, monogamous, covenantal same-sex unions.
The issue was not gender (whether the lovers were male or female), but gender roles (whether a man was overly feminized and acting like a woman).

The issue was not men having sex with men, but men having sex with boys.

The issue was not consensual same-sex intercourse, but gang rape, power imbalances, and systemic oppression.

The revisionist case can take many forms, but central to most of them is the “not that kind of homosexuality!” argument. We can safely set aside the scriptural prohibitions against homosexual behavior because we are comparing apples and oranges: we are talking in our day about committed, consensual, lifelong partnerships, something the biblical authors in their day knew nothing about.
Despite its superficial plausibility, there are at least two major problems with this line of thinking.

Silence Is Not Always Golden
For starters, the cultural distance argument is an argument from silence. The Bible nowhere limits its rejection of homosexuality to exploitative or pederastic (man-boy) forms of same-sex intimacy. Leviticus forbids a male lying with a male as with a woman (Lev. 18:2220:13). The text says nothing about temple prostitution, effeminate men, or sexual domination. The prohibition is against men doing with men what ought to be done with women. Similarly, the same-sex sin condemned in Romans 1 is not simply out of control passion or the insatiable male libido that desires men in addition to women. According to Paul, the fundamental problem with homosexual behavior is that men and women exchange sexual intercourse with the opposite sex for unnatural relations with persons of the same sex (Rom. 1:26-27; cf. 2225). If the biblical authors meant to frown upon only certain kinds of homosexual arrangements, they wouldn’t have condemned the same-sex act itself in such absolute terms.

Because the Bible never limits its rejection of homosexual behavior to pederasty or exploitation, those wanting to affirm homosexual behavior can only make an argument from silence. That’s why you will often read in the revisionist literature that the biblical author was only thinking of man-boy love or that an exploitative relationship would have been assumed in the minds of the original audience. The logic usually goes like this:
  • There were many bad example of homosexual behavior in the ancient world.
  • For example, here are ancient sources describing pederasty, master-slave encounters, and wild promiscuity.
  • Therefore, when the Bible condemns same-sex intimacy, it had these bad examples in mind.
This reasoning can look impressive, especially when it comes at you with a half dozen quotations from ancient sources that most readers are not familiar with. But the last step in the syllogism is an assumption more than an argument. How can we be sure Paul had these bad examples in mind? If he did, why didn’t he use the Greek word for pederasty? Why didn’t he warn masters against forcing themselves upon slaves? Why does the Bible talk about men lying with men and the exchange of what is natural for unnatural if it wasn’t thinking about the created order and only had in mind predatory sex and promiscuous liaisons? If the biblical authors expected us to know what they really had in mind—and no one figured this out for two millennia—it appears that they came up with a remarkably ineffective way of getting their point across.

What Do the Texts Say?
The second reason the distance argument fails is because it is an argument against the evidence. The line of reasoning traced above would be more compelling if it could be demonstrated that the only kinds of homosexuality known in the ancient world were based on pederasty, victimization, and exploitation. On the face of it, it’s strange that progressive voices would want us to reach this conclusion. For it would mean that committed, consensual, lifelong partnerships were completely unknown and untried in the ancient world. It seems demeaning to suggest that until very recently in the history of the world there were no examples of warm, loving, committed homosexual relationships. This is probably why Matthew Vines in using the cultural distance argument to make a biblical case for same-sex relationships admits, “This isn’t to say no one [in the Greco-Roman world] pursued only same-sex relationships, or that no same-sex unions were marked by long-term commitment and love.”[2] But of course, once we recognize that the type of same-sex unions progressives want to bless today were in fact present in the ancient world, it’s only special pleading which makes us think the biblical prohibitions couldn’t be talking about those kinds of relationships.
I’m not a scholar of the ancient world, neither are most of the authors writing on the revisionist side. As a pastor I can read Greek, but I’m no expert in Plato, Plutarch, or Aristides. Most people reading this are not scholars either. Thankfully, almost all of the important ancient texts on homosexuality are readily available. It doesn’t make for fun reading (especially if you think homosexual behavior is wrong), but anyone can explore the primary sources in Homosexuality In Greece and Rome: A Sourcebook of Basic Documents. This 558 page book is edited by the non-Christian classics professor Thomas K Hubbard. What you’ll find in the sourcebook is not surprising given the diversity and complexity of the ancient world: Homosexual behavior was not reducible to any single pattern and moral judgment did not fall into neat categories. There was no more consensus about homosexuality in ancient Greece and Rome than we see today.[3]

From a Christian point of view, there are plenty of examples of “bad” homosexuality in the ancient world, but there is also plenty of evidence to prove that homosexual activity was not restricted to man-boy pairs. Some homosexual lovers swore continued attraction well into their loved one’s adulthood, and some gay lovers were lifelong companions.[4] By the first century AD, the Roman was increasingly divided on the issue of homosexuality. As public displays of same-sex indulgence grew, so did the moral condemnation of homosexual behavior.[5] Every kind of homosexual relationship was known in the first century, from lesbianism, to origiastic behavior, to gender-bending “marriage”, to lifelong same-sex companionship. Hubbard’s summary of early imperial Rome is important:
The coincidence of such severity on the part of moralistic writers with the flagrant and open display of every form of homosexual behavior by Nero and other practitioners indicates a culture in which attitude about this issue increasingly defined one’s ideological and moral position. In other words, homosexuality in this era may have ceased to be merely another practice of personal pleasure and began to be viewed as an essential and central category of personal identity, exclusive of and antithetical to heterosexual orientation.
If in the ancient world not only had a category for committed same-sex relationships but also some understanding of homosexual orientation (to use our phrase), there is no reason to think the New Testament’s prohibitions against same-sex behavior were only thinking of pederasty and exploitation.
Hubbard is not the only scholar to see the full range of homosexual expression in the ancient world. William Loader, who has written eight significant books on sexuality in Judaism and early Christianity and is himself a strong proponent of same-sex marriage, points to examples of same-sex adult partnerships in the ancient world.[6] Even more telling, Loader sees evidence for nascent ideas about orientation in the Greco-Roman era:
It is very possible that Paul knew of views which claimed some people had what we would call a homosexual orientation, though we cannot know for sure and certainly should not read our modern theories back into his world. If he did, it is more likely that, like other Jews, he would have rejected them out of hand, as does Philo after reporting Aristophanes’ bizarre aetiology [i.e., the study of causation] of human sexuality.[7]
Loader’s statement about Aristophanes is a reference to Plato’s Symposium (c. 385-370 B.C.), a series of speeches on Love (Eros) given by famous men at a drinking party in 416 B.C.. At this party we meet Pausanias who was a lover of the host Agathon, both grown men. Pausanias applauds the naturalness and longevity of same-sex love. In the fourth speech we meet the comic poet Aristophanes who proposes a convoluted theory, including notions of genetic causation, about why some men and women are attracted to persons of the same sex. Even if the speech is meant to be satire, it only works as satire by playing off the positive view of homosexual practice common in antiquity.[8]
To suggest that only certain kinds of homosexual practice (the bad kinds) were known in the ancient world is a claim that flies in the face of many Greek texts. Here, for example, is N.T. Wright’s informed conclusion:
As a classicist, I have to say that when I read Plato’s Symposium, or when I read the accounts from the early Roman empire of the practice of homosexuality, then it seems to me they knew just as much about it as we do. In particular, a point which is often missed, they knew a great deal about what people today would regard as longer-term, reasonably stable relations between two people of the same gender. This is not a modern invention, it’s already there in Plato. The idea that in Paul’s today it was always a matter of exploitation of younger men by older men or whatever … of course there was plenty of that then, as there is today, but it was by no means the only thing. They knew about the whole range of options there.[9]
And then there is this paragraph from the late Louis Crompton, a gay man and pioneer in queer studies, in his massive book Homosexuality and Civilization:
Some interpreters, seeking to mitigate Paul’s harshness, have read the passage [in Romans 1] as condemning not homosexuals generally but only heterosexual men and women who experimented with homosexuality. According to this interpretation, Paul’s words were not directed at “bona fide” homosexuals in committed relationships. But such a reading, however well-intentioned, seems strained and unhistorical. Nowhere does Paul or any other Jewish writer of this period imply the least acceptance of same-sex relations under any circumstances. The idea that homosexuals might be redeemed by mutual devotion would have been wholly foreign to Paul or any Jew or early Christian.[10]
I know it is poor form to pile up block quotes from other authors, but in this case it proves a point. Scholars all of different stripes have said the same thing: the cultural distance argument will not work. There is nothing in the biblical text to suggest Paul or Moses or anyone else meant to limit the Scriptural condemnation of homosexual behavior. Likewise, there is no good reason to think from the thousands of homosexuality-related texts found in the Greco-Roman period that the blanket rejection of homosexual behavior found in the Bible can be redeemed by postulating an impassable cultural distance between our world and the ancient world. There is simply no positive case for homosexual practice in the Bible and no historical background that will allow us to set aside what has been the plain reading of Scripture for twenty centuries. The only way to think the Bible is talking about every other kind of homosexuality except the kind our culture wants to affirm is to be less than honest with the texts or less than honest with ourselves.

Original Post: Not That Kind of Homosexuality:
Original Author: Kevin Deyoung

5 Essential Phrases for Every Talk to Youth:

So often in youth ministry, we can make assumptions about students that either alienate part of the audience or neglect essential substance.
We assume that they know what certain words mean. We assume that they are Christians who know the gospel. We assume that they can connect the dots between the theology taught and their practical life.
When I give a talk, I try to never forget to use these five statements.
1. If you’re not a Christian . . .'
More so than any other demographic, students are in the midst of a fluid, dynamic journey. Because of the way they rapidly progress through different developmental phases, teenagers are constantly facing questions related to their identity and place in the world. They are trying to figure out whether or not they will follow Jesus. No matter how “Christian” a youth group may appear, one must always acknowledge students who do not identify themselves as Christians just yet, or kids who are “closet agnostics.”
By acknowledging non-Christians in the audience, you are communicating that they are welcomed in the group. You are saying that they are allowed to carefully and patiently think things through with God. You also give yourself an opportunity to address questions that they may have but do not ask. I usually ask these type questions by saying, “If you’re not a Christian, one thing you may be wondering is . . .” When we do not make this statement at some point, we risk alienating non-Christian kids and creating an atmosphere where they may feel the need to fake it to feel included.
2. 'What this word means is . . .'
Have you ever read a legal contract? Did you understand any of the words? Did you feel helpless and stupid because you were agreeing to something, when in reality you had no idea what you were signing off on? People often use jargon as a way to create an “insider culture” that makes others feel on the outside. Often, Christian leaders use this same practice when they use biblical and theological terminology without explaining their terms.
Students need to boost their Christian vocabulary; it’s helpful for them to know words likejustificationsanctificationsin, and faith. At the same time, while we use Christian lingo, we also need to explain what it means for two reasons. First, this prevents us from alienating students without a long church history who have no idea what we’re talking about. Second, it helps these powerful words stay fresh, rather than trite.
3. 'Here’s where the gospel comes in . . .'
If we do a Bible study or Sunday school lesson without bringing the talk back to the basic gospel, we have wasted precious time. We all need to hear the word of our need for God and of his loving grace every day. Even if you are teaching on Proverbs and nothing in the text openly relates to the gospel, you can remind students that we have no ability to act on God’s wisdom without calling on and receiving the generous grace of God.
Explicitly proclaiming the gospel—not just saying the word gospel but articulating the reality of Jesus’s life, death, and resurrection, is essential in each talk.
4. 'Let’s open our Bibles to . . .'
Regardless of the type of talk we are giving, all talks needs to have a basis in Scripture. Not only when we exegetically teach through books in small group or Sunday school, but also when we are doing topical talks, working from a biblical passage is key.
We need to model for students Word-centered ministry and Bible-centered life. We also need to protect ourselves from error by making sure our talks fall within the bound of what the Bible teaches.
5. 'Here’s why this matters when you walk out of these doors . . .'
Biblical and theological knowledge have inherent value, but they carry far more weight when students understand their significance in the context of their whole life. In Matthew 4:4, Jesus teaches, “Man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that comes from the mouth of God.” Christ points to his words of truth as necessities for life. When we simply teach kids doctrine with no practical application, we reduce Christianity to an academic exercise rather than the fuel of each day.
Given where students are developmentally, most of them cannot make the connection between biblical concepts and their life without a person explicitly explaining it. Furthermore, kids in this instant gratification culture want to know how matters relate to their life right now. This is not a cry for moralism or “relevance” (in the trendy sense of the word), but it does mean that kids need to know why the sovereignty of God affects their college decision and how the incarnation informs their use of social media. 
Original Author: Cameron Cole

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Wednesday, November 12, 2014

King of Kings, Lord of Losers:

This morning I began reading through the Book of Matthew. I expected to read four chapters like I do the majority of mornings; however, I only completed one chapter because I was struck by all I learned about Jesus. In Matthew 1:1-17 Matthew records Jesus's genealogy. In the ancient world, genealogies determined a person's status-whether you came from an honorable family or a shameful one. A person's family line says something about that person. Their character, their social status the types of people they would hang out with. And Jesus's genealogy says one thing loud and clear: Jesus is right at home with sinners, thugs, and outcasts.

Most genealogies list only the male descendants. Remember, the ancient world was patriarchal. Men were more valued than women, so there was no need to list women-thanks for bearing our children, but we'll take it from here. But Jesus's genealogy lists five women, most of whom have some shady event attached to their name.

The first woman is Tamar, the Canannite woman who dressed up as a prostitute in order to have sex with her father-in-law, Judah. Her plan succeeded, and she became pregnant with Perez, the one whom God would weave into Jesus's family line.

Next is Rahab, Jericho's down-and-out prostitute, who was the first Canaanite to receive God's grace. Among all the Canaanite leaders, among all the skilled warriors, Rahab was the only one who savored the majesty of Israel's God.

Then there's Ruth, the foreign widow burdening a famished society. A social outcast, a perceived stigma of God's judgment, Ruth was grafted into the messianic line.

Then there's "the wife of Uriah," Bathsheba, who was entangled in the sinful affair with King David-the man who murdered her husband.

Finally, there's Mary, the teenage girl who got pregnant out of wedlock. Though she would become an icon in church tradition, her name was synonymous with shame and scandal in the beginning of the first century.

You thought your family was messed up.

In conclusion, all of these women were social outcasts. They belonged under a bridge. Whether it was their gender, ethnicity, or some sort of sexual debacle, they were rejected by society yet were part of Jesus's genealogy-a tapestry of grace. Not only was God born in a feeding trough to enter our pain, but He chose to be born into a family tree filled with lust, perversion, murder, and deceit. This tells us a lot about the types of people Jesus wants to hang out with. It tells us that Jesus loves Tamars, Judahs, Gomers, and you.

Thursday, November 6, 2014

Marriage Amendment

Wednesday, November 4th, First Baptist Church of Stanleyville voted to approve an amendment to our church constitution to clearly spell out our stance on marriage. This amendment should protect FBCS from any legal ramifications if we ever have to turn down a same-sex couple asking to be married in our church.

I have posted the amendment below in the hope that more churches will copy our example and make changes to their church constitution.

ARTICLE XIII- MARRIAGE
First Baptist Church of Stanleyville with Scripture as our guide affirm traditional marriage…
We affirm that the term 'marriage' has only one meaning and that is marriage sanctioned by God which joins one man and one woman in a single, exclusive union, as delineated in Scripture (Genesis 2:15-24; Mark 10:6-9; Ephesians 5:22-33).
We affirm that God intends sexual intimacy to only occur between a man and a woman who are married to each other. We affirm that God has commanded that no intimate sexual activity be engaged in outside of a marriage between a man and a woman (1 Corinthians 7:1-9; Proverbs 5; Matthew 5:27-30).
We affirm that any form of sexual immorality, such as adultery, fornication, homosexuality, bisexual conduct, bestiality, incest, pornography or any attempt to change one's sex, or disagreement with one's biological sex, is sinful and offensive to God (Leviticus 18:22-30; Romans 1:16-32; 1 Corinthians 7:1-2; Hebrews 13:4).
We affirm that in order to preserve the function and integrity of the church as the local Body of Christ, and to provide a biblical role model to the church members and the community, it is imperative that all persons employed by the church in any capacity, or who serve as volunteers, must abide by and agree to this Statement on Marriage and Sexuality and conduct themselves accordingly (Ephesians 5:25-27).
We affirm that God offers redemption and restoration to all who confess and forsake their sin, seeking His mercy and forgiveness through Jesus Christ (John 3:16; 1 Timothy 2:4; 2 Peter 3:9; Romans 10:9).
We affirm that every person must be afforded compassion, love, kindness, respect, and dignity. Hateful and harassing behavior or attitudes directed toward any individual are to be repudiated and are not in accord with scripture nor the doctrines of the church (Genesis 1:26-27, 5:1-2, 9:6; Psalm 17:15; Ecclesiastes 7:20).

Sunday, November 2, 2014

Monday Morning Humor:

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Preaching Like Jesus to the LGBT Community and It's Supporters:


One of the best sermons I have ever heard on this issue. If you have 50 minutes please take time to listen...
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